CRE8TIVE MOJO IS BACK TO DATING

It sucks! But I have no choice. I went on 4 dates so far. Honestly, I am a very strategic person when it comes to dating. I pick one day in the week and make sure I have a new date for it. I don't stop going on dates until I find someone I like. Once I find someone I like, I make him my one night a week! Some people tell me just go home and sleep--let love come to you. However, I just can't. I have a problem, I believe everything requires effort.

Date #1: A nice guy I met on BUMBLE, who I thought was Indian, but happens to be from Afghanistan. He was very sweet guy. He told me the whole history of Persia. I told him I forgot about Persia until I remembered that, "Shahs of Sunset" reality show that I got addicted to watching, until it became super boring. He was very intellectual and very hardworking. We connected on a personal level. He's very family orientated and so am I. I loved that. However, I just knew it wasn't going to happen, because my dad wears a turban, and the one thing he told me was don't date a Muslim guy. I know it is really bad, but there is just somethings I still follow when it comes to my parents.

Date #2 A guy I met at the bar. We live close by and went to a neighborhood bar. However, when the bartender who knows me, and my friends, asked my date, "Separate or together checks?", My date said, "I just had a couple beers, so separate." I felt so embarrassed. I get it, not every guy will pay for the date. I always make sure I bring some money, but I am a women that believes a guy should offer to pay. I usually split the bill if I like the guy as a friend, and would like to see him again- just a friend. Some of my friends think I am crazy to even split it, but I feel that it's the perfect way to tell a guy--JUST FRIENDS, and NO SEX. I just wasn't feeling him really.

Date #3 Another guy I met out at a bar. We met at a local restaurant around the way. He was really nice guy as well. Then, he pulled out the gift he got his mom for her bday and it was a cross with Jesus on there. He asked me if I was roman catholic after that, and I said, "No, I am barely Sikh." There was an attraction, however he seemed so old school. He kept laying on the compliments, from my hair to my style of dressing, but it just seemed like a whole lot of game and no real conversation.

Date#4 A guy that I met on Tinder. He is very smart. He owns a start up and works a full-time job. I liked that he was very well travelled and experienced in life. Cute, smart and indian seemed to be working really well, untill he told me that he's only 1 year into his company and barely has time for relationship. His cellphone kept going off, and my patiences was running low. My date didn't pick up his phone, just told me that he has a call in 30 mins. So I split the bill. I told him I actually dated a millionaire once, and after he kept hanging up on me cause he's phone kept getting work calls, I just left him. I couldn't stand feeling like his last priority in life. That's is when I realized that I don't want to be with a millionaire--I am too much of an attention whore, plus I RATHER be the milionaire anyways. :)

Each date makes me analze what exactly made me fall so hard for THE RUSSIAN ( the dude I am probably still in love with). I appreciate a real conversation so much it's crazy .

XO

Cre8tive Mojo

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