cre8tive mojos TOP 10 TIPS for social media sharing!

After being MIA on social media for a month, I had time to think about this.

1. STOP SHARING EVERYTHING UNDER THE SUN--JUST STOP

2. Now, that you have stopped the diarrhea of the social media, make a plan! Ask yourself: What do I really want to share with the world? How can I use social media to better my life, (I.E. share when you have reached a goal, share when you want to feel better, after a hard day) Why do I want to share my moments with other people? (TO motivate them, or to showcase a new idea, transformation, and what not) DO I really want to share this?

3. For someone like me, who loves to share things, I am really random. I had to learn this third step: Protect your own privacy and reputation. Yes, we don't give a fuck what others thinks, but it is important to understand your social media is a way for opportunities to reach you! If a major professional contact saw that pic of you downing margaritas with your bestie-what would they think? Also, there are things to KEEP private: These things are: THINGS you don't want your worst FRENEMY knowing OR the next HOTTIE guy who is stalking you to get an idea of who you are. What is that you want BOTH of them to know or THE PERSON WHO COULD GIVE YOU A BIG BREAK! Side note story: I fucked up one time! I had a major Indian director following me on twitter! She even asked me if one of blogs could turn into a script...Well long story short, I wasn't giving a fuck and started posting very sexy selfies on twitter..low and behold, she is no longer following me. #Ifuckedup.

4. DO NOT TAG YOUR LOCATION- EVENT/PARTY/ANYTHING. One time, I had this guy who seemed to ALWAYS be at the events I was at. He would arrive an hour later, from when I was there...It didn't make sense to me, but I started to realize he was stalking me. When I stopped posting where I was, he never showed up again. JUST DON"T...Also, I use to post all the crazy parties and events I would be attending, some how I got some people complaining about me always being out and depicted me as someone who was a #partygirl.....--if all you post is pics of you with lemon slices in your mouth, moments away from a tequla shot--You will not be taken seriously. EVER. #LessonLearned

5. LET'S TALK SELFIES! I am queen of sexy selfies---JUST eyes OR lips--NO cleavage. I usually do a cleavage showing pic once or twice a year. I keep it to a minimum. Take them, but make them face only or if body---then keep it COVERED, but form fitting. LIMIT YOUR SELFIES TO THE FOLLOWING: With pets, With family and friends, traveling---etc!

6. DO NOT KEEP FUCKING POSTING SELFIES OF YOURSELF ONLY!I i had this very bad habit. It is still hard to keep under control! Take a page from Kim Kardashians handbook (who has built an EMPIRE off of selfies) Reasons for selfie: making a statement b) When you SLAY selfie--Meaning--you are looking so damn HOT! I mean HOTTT! you ARE slaying it!!! c)something NEW--New hurr cut, new car, new job, new pet, new bf/ gf, new apt d) GOAL accomplishment "Yes, I finally did the step-master for 40 mins" E) promoting something for your business or someone else business f) And the rare--FUCK OFF SELFIE...It is not you giving the middle finger to your haters!--IT IS YOU KILLING IT IN YOUR LIFE: Example< When Kim K was on the cover of Forbes for her 46 million $ app! THIS IS WHEN YOU HAVE ARRIVED!

7. DELETE! Go back on all your social media outlets and start deleting SHIT! You clean your closet? Right-- Get rid of people you have no idea of in your social media sites!

8. ADD a lot of professional into your personal image---For example< KEEP it Clean, personal & professional.

9. UPGRADE YOURSELF! IF you are seriously wanting to go places---get someone to handle all your social media channels---and build yourself as a BRAND. I am currently in the process of changing over everything to CRE8TIVE MOJO. THE goal is to create yourself.

10. LESS IS MORE! I know everyone says post more, I say post quality. Start by limiting your monthly post to all your channels to 10 times per month---make it like a story---keep people on the EDGE. A person who has mastered the ability to post less and generate more interest has learned the art of social media in my book- I know it is against conventional wisdom but people now and days want to be mentally seduced, intellectually stimulated and then emotionally climax. We want what we can not have! The ability to stay a mystery and captivate people is what I believe the power of social media is.

11. BONUS TIP: get naked! Show some vulnerability or just get naked ;)! joke

xo

Cre8tive Mojo