Cre8tive Mojo Talks #Relationship Skills

7 months in and I am wondering why all my issues are spilling out...

Now I have a reaction to every action...an effect to a cause....a ying to my yang.....and after being single for 7 years.....I think that has been the hardest thing to realize....I have someone now who will be affected by me---and I will affect him...good or bad.

I am not perfect. I can be very self absorbed. I can be overly dramatic. I can be super messy, and unpredictable. I can be distant.....and I can be stubborn....a bad listener....a crazy cat lady...a lush, an overwhelmed business owner....a menstruating women in her mid thirties...

But, I can also be nonjudgmental, encouraging, funny, caring and loyal. I can also be very fun, and playful. Romantic, and sexy. I can be deeply intuitive and connected, and very genuine and trustworthy. Reliable, and supportive.

I am all of those things...and more.

I realized thus far, a relationship is about taking the good with the bad, communication, going with the flow, respecting your boundaries and your partner's boundaries, and opening up---revealing to them why somethings bother you and where it comes from. It requires space to process it all, and go back at it again---better, this time.

When life is happening to you, when all your issues are spilling out, when things seem to go down hill, allowing to show your partner ways he can be there for you....and being there for him when things go crazy for him....is a skill---and we must learn eachother, and unlearn some other things.

There are somethings, we can all improve on to become better... and when all else fails, say I love u....

#RelationshipSkills

-Cre8tive Mojo